One of the goals of our journey has been to overcome our fears. We’re not referring to any specific fears necessarily, but heading blindly across the planet is an experiment in confronting our fear of the unknown (and the unknown is the source of almost all fear it turns out.) Our family has grown much stronger in these first 118 days on the road and we look forward to getting tougher yet. We tell the kids we want them to get so tough that “They eat cockroaches for breakfast, crap them out, then eat the crap for lunch, then, if they finish that, they can have ice cream.” We’re still working on the breakfast part.
Part of our basic training in overcoming fear is embodied in simply walking across a busy intersection in Hanoi. There are no lights at these intersections, no pauses in the traffic, you must simply walk out into traffic, trusting that they don’t want to hit you anymore than you want to get hit. Our first attempt, as documented in the iPhone POV video below, had us walking across in a single tight line so no stragglers would get nailed by swerving motorbikes. Listen carefully to the raw, unedited soundtrack. This is what overcoming (or at least confronting) fear looks and sounds like.
Wow! And I thought L.A. was bad! You’re “evil!”.
I remember that so well.
Don’t look – just go in the cop pond.
Ahaha. That cracked me up!! My Flackett-Levins are growing up!!! Franny yelling out “THIS IS NOT OKAY” sounded so much like Jen. And as Joelle and I were watching we kept yelling out at the screen “Go, run, just go. There won’t be a better time. Ruuuuun.”
As a veteran of many Hanoi crossings, I can confidently say, that you Mark (i.e. “Mr. Evil”), as platoon commander in the post-War era, deserve a medal of commendation! But as you all must know by now, this “first crossing” was literally child’s play. There are wider, more raging rivers of traffic that must be crossed in Hanoi. Nevertheless, I am sure you and your cock-roach courageous band performed with distinction!
xox, #1FANNY
Fantastic. Do you take requests? Some more shots of accommodations. I’m trying to turn your blog into Househunters International.
I crapped yesterday’s cockroach just watching the surge for sure.
Thanks – because with l the turkey of late that could be 2day old roach
Some journey to relax – some to laxative
Fight on
Dr Rick
Stuart and I have been right on that street!! You are certainly right….. it is brutal. Hanoi has the worst traffic in the world. Many of the natives will not drive there. I am so glad you made it across the street!
Enjoy your coch-roach breakfast! Yum!
xoxo Margie
bạn là một gia đình dũng cảm!
Wow! You folks are brave. When we were in Vietnam and took rides in pedicabs I had to close my eyes! It was quite exciting crossing the street as well. Enjoy your adventures. love,Aunty Wendy
Wow! A lot worse than Beijing. Love the tag line on this video.
Has anyone told the officials in Hanoi about the light system? Maybe you could let them know there’s a better way…
Phew! Glad you made it and hope you don’t have to go back across the street!!
ha ha! when we crossed the street in vietnam we would all scream loudly as we went across. miss you guys.